Do not be too extravagant on the first date. Wear clothes
that fit the menu for the date and also your personality. In other words,
don’t wear a $1,500 outfit when you are going to the carnival. Always
dress for the occasion.
Try to relax. This is easier said than done seeing how the
other person will scrutinize everything that you do. So relax and be
Drive yourself. One of the worst things to do is to try to
spend an evening with someone that you find repulsive. So if you drive, you
can always end the date when you see fit.
Set plans on where you will go before the date. This will
help you know what to wear and it also will ensure that you are not about to
go to a place that you or your date will absolutely hate.
Keep your conversation simple. Do not try to overly impress
the person that you are with. Just stick with a basic conversation in order
to get to know the other person better.
Be sure to ask questions. Do not talk about yourself all
night. People love to be heard. It makes them fell welcome. Asking questions
is a great way to get to know someone and start bonding with them.
If you and your date are going out to eat. Order foods that
will not make you look like a messy pig. Another helpful tip is if you do
not like one of the ingredients and the cook can not make your dish without
it. Do yourself a favor and do not order it. It is unattractive to look
across the table at your date picking through and scrutinizing every bite
before they eat it.
Pay attention to what your date tells you. They will
basically lead you to the things they want to talk about. This helps insure
that you will not run out of things to talk about and also helps to make the
whole rendezvous more interesting.
Carry around a few breath mints. This can only work to your
advantage. After all, who wants to smell someone’s bad breath.
Guys practice chivalry. Most women find it romantic and
courteous when a guy opens the doors for them. If you guys get a negative
response, be sure not to do it again.