| Asking someone out is perhaps the hardest thing to
do, because of fear of rejection. The first thing that one needs to
do is to strike up a conversation with the other person. By talking
to that person you enable yourself to get to know them better and
vice versa. Be sincere and do not try to be someone who you aren’t.
Do not dominate the conversation and let them talk a little about
themselves and their interests. If things seem to be going well, ask
them if they would like to so something with you sometime. Perhaps
make it a group event or in a public place to let them get to know
you better and ease any fear they might have. That is perhaps the
hardest part of the conversation, but you have to just come out and
say it. The tension of holding back will be released and you should
feel calm. If they say no, look at it as
there is nothing lost. If you didn’t ask you would never know. You
would still be in your previous situation. You want to know if they
would like to go out, but you never asked, so you don’t know. At least
now you have found out. If they say yes, then this could be the start
of a good relationship.
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